Something I wrote a few years ago and they look the same for me

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Sharing daily experiences: A few things people don't need to know about you, in order to avoid further disappointment. That was my weekly painful lesson!
1- Never say how much money you make. For good or for bad, human being have the tendency to misjudge certain informations. If you make a few money, you are a loser. If you make a good money, make sure you will have to deal with some wolfs dressed in lambs.
2- Never say to people everything about you know.if you know a little bit, you are a "limited" person. If you know a lot, you are or: 1- a liar 2- an arrogant 3- an arrogant liar 4- a psycho.
3- Avoid saying how many important people you know/work/live/date etc. It seems there is a universal tendency to arouse in people the worse opportunism they have within. And remember - if it happens, it's not because people are bad: YOU HAVE A BIG MOUTH! !!
4- You have a friend? Right! He is your friend! Never: 1-Invite him/her to work with you for more than 3 months. 2- If you do so, pay more than you should - he/she is your friend, but will be the first to tell things against you (and people will believe) in case something goes wrong. Avoid long term business with friends and lovers, unless you intend to get marry and have problems in the future, facing a court compelled to share all you got along your life.
5- Never tell your plans to people around. Even those who are rooting for your success, in a moment of disappointment with you, will be the first to rejoice with your failure, as a way to punish you for all the efforts you put in something. People have this mean tendency to celebrate competent's people's misfortune. It's a kind of unconscious sadism. 
6- Are you in love? Good! Keep to yourself and enjoy the relationship. Be careful with those you share. If they are happy and good people, they will be glad for you, but will think a little hard to hear about your happiness very often, therefore they will start putting you against the wall of happiness till convince you your feelings are bulshit. If they are bad and unhappy people, depressive by inner nature, skilled envious, pessimistic by vocation, you need a good therapist, and all you feel is the need to share things to listen what you already know, but you need to feel alive. Then you love yourself and hate the target you were supposed to say you love. You are a sick person!
7- Avoid telling private things between you and your partners/friends/co-workers etc. To people around. One day, you will regret deeply when your friendly listener starts using what you said as a way to show how weak, bad, incompetent and phony you are. People have the tendency to be mean when they need to feel better than you.




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